Hello @Busayo, we are happy to have you here in our midst, welcome!
I am not claiming to know how much it takes to raise a kid, financially, emotionally and psychologically but being the last child in a family of 6 girls, I’ve had my shares of stressfully taking care of my nephews and nieces.
Are you happy being a single mother? Which father figure would you expect your princess to look up to? Are your scars fully healed to give room for love again and are you ready to go through the healing process? Have you conquered your fears? These are questions you should ask yourself to help you make the decision.
Once bitten twice shy, marriage no be beans, at the same time no woman wants to be alone. I’m not talking of occasional side guy/man (sorry if that came out too harsh) but your princess will be looking at your life as a mirror. Also know you are marrying for yourself and not for “them”.
In marriage, we all get to say or do things that hurt our partners, but we try not to repeat it and learn to forgive when we do. Marriage is patience, trust and respect before roman roman love come join sef. Cos if you love any1, those three will always come into place.
Please ruminate on this and as @Jay asked, her question may be the ice breaker for you.
Please give your princess lots of kisses and hugs for me